YOU CAN TELL a lot about a person when you know what she loves to read, what he loves to watch. What’s a really private guy doing with a website in which he chooses to show these to whomever drops by? Is a puzzlement. (You’re remembering that line from The King and I, aren’t you?) Perhaps he cares more about being known to his little family around the world, reflecting their own values, than he does about his online privacy.